Wednesday, April 16, 2014

An Easy Choice

Tulips for Easter and Springtime and new beginnings

Finally, the cat's out of the bag! Thanks so much to my dear, sweet readers for being excited and happy with us! Charlottesville is a vibrant, wonderful little city and I'm pretty sure we're going to love it there.

These last two years in Alabama were very much not a part of our plan, as I'm sure you have gathered from my posts. We thought we would live here together as a married couple for three months, max, but it's been close to 24. We also thought we'd be in a very different situation by the time we left Alabama than we currently are. Life has surprised us.

But you know what I've learned? That this trying, frustrating, patience-testing, worry-filled, big unknown phase of our lives has been one enormous blessing in disguise. God had a plan for us and my husband and I both honestly believe that we are in a better place as a result of the chaos of the last few years (the details of which I won't get into here). If that isn't a praise-worthy revelation I don't know what is.

We are moving to Charlottesville because my husband got the unexpected opportunity to go back to school in order to pursue a career change (a career of the "dream" variety). We're moving there to be close to our families--my in-laws are a little over an hour away and my parents are a little over two hours away. We are moving there so that I might feel more stimulated artistically and creatively and hopefully grow as a musician and a teacher and a writer. We are moving to Charlottesville because it's a beautiful and interesting part of the country. Simply put, we like it there.

Last week we signed a lease on a cute house to rent and--get this--we did it all sight unseen! Something I wouldn't have imagined doing in a previous life but I guess I'm getting gutsy and learning to be flexible. To be fair, my mother went to see it and proclaimed it adorable and perfect for us. (Also, it has a red door and a screened porch. Sold.) We can't wait to see it and move in.

It's a wonderful feeling to have made this relocation decision together as a couple and to know that it is the right one for us. It was weird, sometime over this past summer I started to feel a pull to Virginia generally and Charlottesville specifically. As we thought about it more and more the decision pretty much made itself. It was an easy choice and after months of hard choices or too few choices, that felt great.

It goes without saying that there are still unknowns in our lives (there always will be) and issues to overcome (of course!) but we feel so hopeful for this new chapter and the changes it will bring.

(Not least of which is the happy reunion that will take place when I get to unpack the boxes filled with wedding gifts. I've had many a daydream about Grandma's china and our white embroidered pillowcases and our pretty dining room chairs.)


  1. What a happy post and do exciting! It never ceases to amaze me how God works in our lives and completely changes "our" plans and they always end up so much better in the end! The waiting fame is the hardest part though! Happy packing to you!

  2. Katie @ Loverly SheApril 16, 2014 at 2:36 PM

    So exciting Kate. I can practically hear the proverbial breath of fresh air you’re inhaling :) It’s going to be so good.

  3. Yup, you said it. A breath of fresh air is the perfect description. :)

  4. Congratulations on your upcoming move!! I'm sorry I won't be in the area after this spring. My favorite thing to do in Cville is to drive around during azalea season, admiring everyone's beautiful gardens. It's even better than looking at Christmas lights in December! Let me know if you need any musical contacts in the area :)

  5. I'm sorry you won't be there too, Leslie! And yes, I would LOVE some musical contacts--email me when you get a chance? :) Thanks a ton.

    What a great tip on the azaleas. Hopefully in early June all will still be blooming!

  6. I'd be happy to! If I don't email this week sometime, please get in touch; it's the end of the semester and sometimes things get away from me ;)

  7. So happy for you guys and SO GLAD the cat is out of the bag and that things are finalized. :) Charlottesville is going to be perfect for you and I am happy to have you nearby. And I am squealing with delight just thinking about you unpacking everything. :)

  8. Yes!! I think I get an award for waiting 2.5 years for all of our beautiful wedding gifts!!


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